So a little follow-up story to mister “send me a picture of your feet”.
Out of nowhere, he sends me an email with a picture of his dick (of course). There was a message included about not letting me get away that easily. I told him that it was crass and that I’m not interested.
That’s when I received back an email full of insults. Everything from being ugly to a catfish to saying that I’m going to die alone.
The worst part is, that it’s not even surprising. Happens all the time.
So I’ve had plenty of time to think about it, and no, I don’t think porn made me jaded. I don’t think that requesting a picture of someone’s feet right off the bat is an awkward way of flirting or whatever. Nobody who legitimately wants to get to know me would be requesting any such thing.
Instead of the predictable “more pics!” requests, why don’t men ever want to know what I like to read? How I like to spend my free time? Favorite color. Something.
No means no.
It doesn’t mean push harder, or badger, or attempt to argue your way into getting what you want out of a girl. And it’s pathetic that the standard is to then turn around and verbally assault a lady because she had the audacity to tell you no.
Yes, I would rather be alone than be treated like crud by one of these bossy morons.
I guess that could mean that I’m jaded. I prefer to think of it as just having some self-respect.